From Prefect to Ascetic
Neilos received an excellent education and, while still young, was appointed to the important post of prefect (eparch) of Constantinople. He was married with two children during these years in public life.
His decisive spiritual formation came through Patriarch John Chrysostom, whom he served as a disciple and who directed him in the study of Scripture and in works of piety. Sometime between roughly 390 and 404, Neilos and his wife mutually resolved to abandon worldly life: she and their daughter entered a women's monastery in Egypt, while Neilos and his son Theodulos departed for Mount Sinai.